As a mom to many I find it difficult at times to find that balance. I am not even seeking a perfect balance. Just a balance in general.
For example how is it possible to be filled to over flowing with pride in one childs accomplishments and so very disappointed in another childs choices? Do you ever feel guilty in rejoiceing while mourning anothers losses? I am seeking a better balance. I do not want to rob my desrving children of praise and celebration when they are doing well and achieve amazing things. At the same time I mourn the loss of all the opportunities I could have should have had with another...